recaptured Infancy "My daughter is 3 yrs. old 28lbs. adopted from China at age
10 months. My older daughter's attachment therapist, Doris Landy, asked if I
would test the Hug-a-bub for her. My 3 yr. old was reluctant to use the 'Hug'
until she watched your demonstration tape of babies using the Hug. Once comfortable
with it she instantly regressed to an infant and settled in. This was what we
both needed due to her first 10 months in an institution followed our busy home
with 2 sisters already calling on me for attention. Her response to abandonment
and institutional care was to become fairly independent with little desire or
need for a mother. She seemed to have missed the infant stage and went right
into toddler. The primary therapeutic technique called Holding Therapy was helpful
but the Hug brought us to a wonderful closeness that I last felt with my birth
child as an infant. She relaxes in my arms with a bottle and falls asleep. I
use the Hug in the evening for her one and only bottle of the day. I hold her
standing up, one shoulder strap off so her head is at my breast level. After
the bottle I slip the strap up over my shoulder and rock her to sleep in the
rocking chair. I made a videotape of our evening ritual for Doris Landry to be
used at her lectures to Parents waiting to adopt children from China. I think
it helped promote your product so look for further orders from Michigan, U.S.A.
Thank you so much for giving one child a chance to recapture a small part of
her infancy lost by no fault of her own." Marianne Schmidt - Michigan, U.S.A
ancient wisdom
the largest percentage of insecure infants are found in cultures that require the earliest self reliance ..., Sharon Heller